This is the data-led article in the safety pillar. Every statistic below includes its source so journalists, researchers, and concerned daters can cite this page with confidence.
£106M
Total UK losses 2024/25
UK Finance
9,449
Reported cases
Action Fraud
+37%
Year-on-year increase
Action Fraud
£11,000+
Average loss per victim
UK Finance
84%
Want platforms to do more
YouGov/Ofcom
~5%
Cases actually reported
NCA estimate
Romance fraud is one of the fastest-growing crime categories in the United Kingdom. The figures above represent only the cases that are actually reported — the true scale is estimated to be 10–20 times higher. Shame, embarrassment, and a belief that nothing will be done prevent the vast majority of victims from coming forward.
The financial impact is devastating, but the emotional toll is often worse. Victims describe feelings of betrayal, depression, and isolation that can persist for years after the scam ends. Understanding the data is the first step toward protecting yourself and others.
